Empowering ourselves is the path to ultimate submission.
So I safeworded, I said those 3 letters that mean ‘no I can’t do this right now’, I ‘wussed out’, I managed to overcome my fear of the ball gag (I will cover this in another post) and then used my safeword on the shock collar that I’ve had lots of times before.
And guess what? The world didn’t end! The scene didn’t even end! I just didn’t get the shock collar put on as I didn’t feel I could handle it at that particular moment.
I say above that I ‘wussed out’ as that’s what I used to think using a safeword meant. Yes I ranted on about its importance but I never thought I’d use one as I thought it was failing/giving up.
However, I don’t feel weak or like a failure at all after using it.
In fact, I feel empowered!
I have gotten near breaking…
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