missameliaandsir

Thoughts on an ever-evolving life

So This Has Been Bothering Me

Not having a Safe word or some trusted safety net, doesn’t make you more submissive, dedicated or authentic. It just makes you more likely to be abused. Don’t be blindly stupid, educate yourself, choose trustworthy partners and ALWAYS be Safe, Sane and Consensual.

Sir's ginger

"A woman needs ropes and ropes of pearls." ~Coco Chanel ...and Ms Chanel was SO right...

Confession: I like to read naughty stories.  I know.  I write naughty stories, so it’s not like this is a shocker.  Not long ago I finished reading a book.  I can’t recall the name off the top of my head and I don’t really want to mention it anyway.  I don’t want to publicly criticize another writer.  But…

Some things about the story really bother me.  In this book, a woman meets a man who turns out to be a Dom.  You’re with me so far, right?  However, in this guy’s version of BDSM there are no safe words.  If this sub doesn’t like what’s happening, she’s free to say so, at which point the relationship will be irretrievably terminated, end of story.

As a result, because her only other option is losing the relationship, this woman goes along with a lot of things she doesn’t want to do…

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