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My Toy Box

I want to add to my toy/tool collection. No, I NEED to add to my toy/tool collection.
So, I am coming to you, the incredibly helpful, insightful and kinky people who read my blog. What do you suggest? What is your FAVORITE toy? What REALLY does it for you? What REALLY doesn’t work? (Always good to know the epic fails too.) I would appreciate any and all ideas, comments and suggestions.

PS: This is NOT my actual toy box. Mine is MUCH BIGGER! 🙂

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51 thoughts on “My Toy Box

  1. Annie B on said:

    AT&T 😜

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  2. Worst toy ever….vibrating butterfly with remote control. My cell phone is more powerful. Best as always the classic hitachi and clovers.

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  3. Tada on said:

    Frisbee

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  4. Tada on said:

    I’m not grown up. Haven’t you read my blog?

    I’ve never played with “those” toys. I’m a Vanilla trapped in this BDSM WordPress world.

    HELP!

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  5. Tada on said:

    To tell the truth, it’s not a frisbee. It’s a pirate ship’s wheel that’s on my crotch. People ask me if it’s annoying. I say “Argh! Yes! It’s driving me nuts.”

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  6. Deck?

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    • Ok, that was my attempt at a bad pirate joke. Sorry. I have so enjoyed your wit today. Thank you for making me smile. 😀

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      • That was my bad attempt at another silly remark. Deck sounds like…
        I love being silly and making people smile. I’m glad I could brighten your day. It’s so fun to bounce off of your comments with my smart ass replies. You are quite fun.

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      • Oh, I get it Deck and D*ck. I LOVE a good Smart Ass. That is why I follow Annie B., right Annie? 🙂 Well, if you think my humor is fun, you should see what I can do with my #@*%……………

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  7. Annie B on said:

    She is hilarious, T. This dialog made my day!!!!!

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  8. BallsyBilly on said:

    My trusty flogger and I are on a 1st name bases. Also like the blindfold for heighten awareness. (All Of Them)
    But I laugh and agree with Annie, only mine is Verizon.

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  9. The type of flogger makes a difference too. Suede, deer hide, number of falls, etc. I recommend looking here: http://www.detailstoys.com/floggers/. My favorite small vibe is this: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00IPXKX4M/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1435408528&sr=1-1&pi=AC_SY200_QL40&keywords=sensuelle+point&dpPl=1&dpID=41WSgxVsFDL&ref=plSrch. It’s rechargeable (the only kind we buy) and the strongest I’ve ever felt other than the Hitachi. I also love a good set of chopsticks with rubber bands….just steal them next time you eat out. My most favorite impact you is a cane. The type makes a difference here too, but it’s all preference. If I had to choose, I’d say walnut is the one to have in the arsenal, 36″. Lastly…rope. In prefer 6mm jute. It’s amazing.

    Hope this helps!

    Kay💜

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  10. Toy, not you….lol

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  11. darkgemdom on said:

    Fav:

    A full leather lace up hood with blindfold and insertable gag. It’s a Devonshire model I purchased years ago.
    Add earplugs and….perfection!

    Did I tell you I like to use sensory deprivation when I “play”? It heightens the other senses.

    Oh, and I don’t consider it a toy, or playing.

    M

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    • I have done blindfolds, but I am not sure about a full hood. I have often thought it might be fun to try, but it kind of freaks me out. At the same time I wonder, “Really? With all the other shit you have done? How bad could it be?” 🙂
      And, I use toy and play as an engaging way to ask for help. Trust me, I know it’s not all fun and games when I feel the stings and burns and treat the marks left behind. It is, however, AMAZING!

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