Thoughts on an ever-evolving life

Gone in a Puff of Smoke

I have been following a REALLY GREAT Blog. I LOVED the posts, how the writer wrote, exchanging thoughts and the playful banter we had back and forth. I was relishing some of his AMAZING works, just this morning, and this afternoon, POOF, gone. His Blog has been erased, cancelled, deleted. But why?

I know this happens every day for a million different reasons. I am sure he had a very respectable motive, that there were unknowns and justifications, but still, I wonder why?

This medium is so unique unto itself. With the anonymity it affords, we can be anything we want to be, act any way we want to act, and come and go whenever the mood strikes. Each individual has their own reasons and rationalizations for posting. Some are exploring their beginnings, while others are lamenting their ends. There are those who are working on building themselves up, and others hell bent on tearing themselves and everyone else down. The lonely can be popular, the blemished can be beautiful, the attached can be free and the meek can be heroes.

You can be ANYTHING you want to be, say ANYTHING you want to say and come and go at will. But I still ask, Why?

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10 thoughts on “Gone in a Puff of Smoke

  1. Kind of sucks it happens to you, miss. You’re pretty lovely.

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    • Thank you Sir. But nothing really happened to me. Yes, I was enjoying the playful banter, but it was just a fun outlet, nothing more. It just made me wonder what happened. Why did he suddenly disappear without notice? Maybe it was something salacious and juicy or maybe it was something as simple as his internet was being disconnected. Who knows, it just makes me wonder.
      And thank you for the complement. I don’t know about “pretty lovely” but I try hard to be a good human and kind person with a wicked kinky side. πŸ˜‰


      • Definitely a wicked side there, that’s for sure. Well, you are a lovely gentle soul but you mix it up. It’s a nice combination. As for the man, maybe it was for the best. Who can say?

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      • Well Sir, you flatter me. Thank you for your Very kind words. ❀
        I am sure you are correct about the other blog. I wish him nothing but the best. This has happened several times previously. I just decided to post about it this time. I am incredibly fortunate to still have immensely talented bloggers, such as yourself, to keep my need for words satisfied. πŸ™‚


  2. My reasons evolve, or have evolved over the time I’ve been here. Probably because I’ve evolved, how can you not? Spilling bits of our souls out here is vulnerable and lends instead to continually uncovering and learning about ourselves and others. Sometimes that’s difficult. Priorities change. I’ve almost left many times. Unfortunately, it happens, and I’m always sad too, when someone whose words I connected with suddenly leaves. Makes me hopeful all is well.

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    • I guess that is why I posted this. I just hope all is well. We all continue to change all the time. We have to. I know people come and go from this medium just as the do from our everyday life. The disappearances of those friends and acquaintances have caused me to ask Why too. I just felt the need to get my thoughts out and maybe make the reader think. Thank you for your kind thoughts and comment.

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  3. I have asked the same thing myself.

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    • I am sure everyone does. Why is a question that I have found the most frustration with because sometimes, there is just NO answer. Thank you for taking your time to comment. I REALLY appreciate it. πŸ™‚


  4. I hope he realizes that he mattered in the WP world and maybe lets you know what happened. I think it is sweet that you posted. πŸ™‚

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    • Thanks for the compliment. I don’t think he has any reason to let me know what happened. He was just a random stranger exchanging thoughts with another random stranger, so there would be no reason to provide explanation. But, you do have a GREAT point, people do matter, even on WP. I have felt EXTREMELY lucky to have met, shared and exchanged with some truly amazing people here. So on that level, I do hope he knows he mattered to me. πŸ™‚

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