It Took Nerve to…
It took nerve to call yourself my friend for 25 years
Taking and taking while giving very little back.
It took nerve to include yourself on our anniversary trip
Where you ditched us in the strip club because you needed “me” time.
It took nerve to say, “Oops, sorry. Forgot it was your anniversary”
Like it was no big deal.
It took nerve to call me to help you when your world came crashing down
Eating up all my vacation time trying to help you cope with the devastation that you brought on yourself.
It took nerve for you to come stay at my house while I was away
And using my hospitality and absence to fuck my husband, and her husband, and her husband and…
It took nerve to say that I was free to call you if I wanted an apology
But you weren’t going to “grovel” and call me.
It took nerve for you to inform my husband that he and you were never going to be a couple
Like he ever wanted you for anything more than a fuck.
It took nerve to…
NO IT DIDN’T! It just made you a SELFISH BITCH!!
missameliaandsir 
Wow!
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Sometimes we just have to know when to let go. She made it very clear that the time was NOW! Thanks for reading and commenting. 🙂
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❤ ❤ ❤
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Love you too, my REAL friend. xoxo
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Yes ma’am. Wanna kick some ass? I’m in the mood.
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Yes, but not her’s. She isn’t worth the possibility of a broken nail. But if you want to go out and stir up some other trouble, I’m right there with you! xoxo
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Wow! Such power in your words, Miss. I wouldn’t want to rile you up – I don’t want a bruised bottom. 😀
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Of course YOU do! 🙂
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Cathartic!
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Yes Ma’am. That is EXACTLY what this is. Letting go of the final pieces so life can continue on. Thanks for stopping by. 🙂
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Some folks give humans a bad name.
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Some people just don’t know any better, and have no desire to learn. Thanks you for your continued support. xoxo
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Dayum!!!!! Nothin like tellin a bitch to pound sand. She don’t deserve ya sweetie!!! Love and hugs!! 💜
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LOL! “Nothin like tellin a bitch to pound sand.” I almost peed myself reading this. Thanks Sweets! My life is much better since she’s been gone. I was hanging on for the years invested. Years don’t mean shit if the friendship doesn’t. xoxo
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glad i could make you laugh! 🙂
i had this happen to me almost 2 years ago now. it was brutal and truth be told i still have moments where i let it sadden me that i no longer have my friend and sister but i know its also for the best. sometimes you just have to let the toxic people walk away.
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Yes Ma’am, you do. And when you do, you open up time and room in your heart for new, nontoxic people to enter. I happen to have a newly vacated room, interested? 🙂
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hmmmm, let me think…. ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY! 🙂
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Goodie Gumdrops! I think we could get into a LOT of trouble. Can’t wait! 🙂
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nearly every week i have someone ask me at work if i’m staying out of trouble. my response is always and very enthusiastically, *never*. 😉
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Where’s the fun in staying out of trouble? Regret what you did, not what you didn’t do! Let’s DO IT ALL!! 🙂
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amen to that! i’m game. 🙂
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I’m glad you let it out!! I’m in your corner!💜
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Thanks! It feels good. It is the last nail in a coffin that should have been buried a LONG time ago. And thanks for having my back. I know for a fact that this blog has allowed me to finally see things clearly and take the steps necessary to simplify my life. When people I have never actually met face to face, are better friends and more supportive than someone you have known for 25 years, it’s time to let that “REAL LIFE” shit go. xoxo
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I can totally relate!!
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And I’m so sorry about that. We all have stories like this. They are all sad and hurtful, but hopefully also great learning experiences. I’m in your corner too! xoxo
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Friends like this make enemies more attractive.
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I’m just glad that she is gone. It’s one less thing that I have to work to maintain that isn’t giving me anything positive back. Thanks for reading, commenting and being one of the good ones. 😉
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I understand. So. Much. It’s good to feel free to move on.
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Yes Ma’am. Freedom and release. It works for LOTS of things. 🙂
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Damn. What a bitch. Hugs.
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Thanks Sweetie! It was just WAY past time to eliminate her from my life. 🙂
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It does feel good to write and get it out. I know. I do the same.
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It REALLY has. Even though she will never read it, it still feels great. Like a perfect finale. Even if she did stumble across it, she doesn’t see where she has done wrong. There is an excuse for EVERYTHING, and never any acceptance of responsibility. Not my problem anymore. 🙂
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A perfect ending! There is no better way to describe her. A perfect bitch. I want to give you a big hug and hold you so tight. She is a blood sucker. How can you screw over someone who has done so much for you? Love you.
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She can do it because she doesn’t know any better. If you look at her actions with almost everyone, she is just a selfish person. That, and truthfully, she isn’t exactly the brightest bulb, if you know what I mean. 🙂
I wish you could give me that big hug right now. I would like that VERY MUCH. Love you too. xoxo
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Not the sharpest knife in the drawer, huh? Yeah, I want to give you that hug so badly.
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I’m waiting. xo
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Sadly, most can relate to this. Thank you for the mention with your heartfelt piece. We both can and have come out stronger and better people . 😃
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Wow, sorry been there before. Just last year I found out my “best friend” either fucked, tried to fuck of broke u every relationship I had. Don’t let her make you hard or bitter. You’re strong to see through her shit and move on.
Biggest hug
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I think I am actually feeling sorry for her. She has no clue what she has done, nor does she care. How can I help but feel sorry for her lack of self awareness? She is doomed to the same behaviors and the same outcomes, always feeling like a victim.
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I know I’m my situation her mental illness played a large part. In hind sight, she was my first D/s relationship, lol, but I didn’t know that!
She still plays the victim, with life in general….. She doesn’t even deny the things she did, in her mind if I found the right man, the three of us would be together and we would take care of her….😣
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I’m just enjoying the relief of not having her on my to do list anymore. One less chore. 😃
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Very true! Friendship should never feel like a job!
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🙂
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I hit the like button so you would know I saw your post. What am I talking about, I’m commenting Duh..
Anywho, as the old saying goes, with friends like that…
Sorry it happened.
I’ve been there and it hurts at 1st, but then it’s time to move on and say FUCK them !
Btw I’d be glad to join you and Rita in opening a can of whip ass, if you need some male back-up…
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I could always use a male at my back, or front for that matter. 😉
No whip ass needed. I’d have to care enough, and at this point, I REALLY don’t.
I know who I want to keep in my life, and YOU are definitely one of those people.
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Thank you my friend & right back @ you <3. How about we use the whip on you 😉
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HELL YES!!! I’m SURE I’ve done SOMETHING bad too! 😉💋
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