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Now What?

What do you do if you and someone you love, just can’t see eye to eye on a matter? You can understand that they are hurt, want to make things better, but just doesn’t understand why they are holding on so tightly to this pain? You apologize, listen, support and discuss, but still just don’t see the situation exactly like they do?

I’m experiencing that right now, and I am at a loss as to what to do. I want things to be better. I want things to be healed. I want to help in anyway I can, but I’m struggling to find common ground.

This someone is working EXTREMELY hard to find a way to manage the hurt they are feeling. They are doing everything they should and can to make it better for everyone. I know they want the pain to end as much as, if not more than, I do.

Unfortunately, no matter what we do, we have one situation that we both see through completely different lenses. I don’t have any answers, but I do know one thing to be COMPLETELY True, no matter what happened, is happening or will happen, I will do whatever I can because the Love is stronger than any hurt, we could possibly experience.

Now What?

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  1. I think it is not always possible to find common ground with all those we love. Sometimes, realizing differences helps us understand what make us unique and complimentary. Even those things that are hard to accept, help us see others through the lens of who they really are instead of what we wish they were. And being truly seen, even if we aren’t on the same page, can feel more loving than being misunderstood. I think being present is important, but also being honest is. You don’t have to fix people’s problems or hearts, you only have to love them where they are.

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  2. Oh Sis…. its not about holding onto the pain. lord knows this isn’t something i like carrying around. it’s just that its been hard to let go of it when new wounds are being added onto the ones that haven’t had time to heal. we all process and grieve at different paces. you were able to work out your hurt, move on, then build and strengthen your relationships as a group and with your partner when things went sideways. i didn’t have that luxury.

    what do we do about it? we continue to talk. we continue to share our feelings, we listen to understand instead of to respond, we continue to work on our affirmations and declarations of what we mean to one another and how we value each other in each others lives with not just our words but our actions too. and we continue to love, loving is always the easiest part and the only part of all of this that has never hurt. i love you Sis! ❤

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